Significance Of Pitru Paksha
Pitru Paksha or Shraddh is the time of the Hindu calendar when people
remember and pay their respects to their ancestors. It is believed that if
prayers are offered to the Gods during this period, the ancestors would bless
their living relatives and their souls will rest in peace.
In the year 2016,
the Pitru Paksha starts on September 16 and ends on September 30. Mahalaya
amavasya falls on September 30 and is of special significance as it marks the
end of the 16 day Pitru Paksha. Rituals such as Tarpan and Pind Daan are
performed to appease the ancestors.
Srimad Bhagagvad Gita tells us that the soul is indestructible. The soul
neither dies and nor is it born. The soul in each of our bodies are immortal
and cannot be destroyed by anything. The motto of the soul is attain liberation
or salvation.
Performing Shraadh helps the soul of the departed to rest in
peace and dissolve into the creator. Another reason for performing Tarpan
during Pitru Paksha is that it relieves the living of all the bad effects of
non performance of rituals dedicated to the ancestors. Hence, it is very
important to pray and offer respects to the departed souls with full faith and
devotion.
The
Legend
It is said that when Karna reached the heavens after his death in the
war of Kurukshetra, he was offered gold, silver and diamonds as food. Seeing
this, Karna asked Indra why he was being treated this way even though he was
always generous and kind when alive. Indra answered that while it was true that
Karna was probably the most generous man who ever lived, all he donated and
gave away was wealth. He never offered his respects to his ancestors or tried
to appease them by offering them food. Karna answers that he never was aware of
his ancestors and therefore, could not offer Tarpan. So, Indra let Karna return
to earth for 16 days to help him fulfill his duties to his ancestors.
It is believed that during the sixteen day period,
the departed souls come to earth to accept the offerings made by their
successors and to bless them.
Places Where Tarpan Can Be Offered Is thought that there are places of
special powers and significance when it comes to offering Tarpan. These places
can be found all over India. The best places to perform
Tarpan are given below:
- Prayaga
- Varanasi
- Kedarnath
- Gaya
- Rameswaram
- Badrinath
- Kapal mochan Sesh Ambadi
- Nasik
Rituals
The eldest son in the family or the head of the family is who performs
Tarpan. If that is not possible, any male member of the family may perform the
ritual.
It is important to control one's emotions during the Shraadh. It is
necessary to pray to the God and to remember to control their anger.
If it is not possible to visit the important places for Shraadh,
Brahmins may be invited to the home and and are offered food, clothes, sweets
and dakshina. It is said that any offering made to a pious Brahmin reaches the
souls of the ancestors.
The crow is fed food as it is seen as the messenger of Yama. Cows and
dogs can be fed too.
If
one is riddled with Pitru Dosha, one can make Mahadaan. This helps bring in
positivity and the blessings of the ancestors.
Things Not To Do
During Pitru Paksha, you must not buy new clothes.
Auspicious ceremonies and events like marriages are not performed during
this period.
Haircuts should be avoided during this time.
One must keep away from consuming alcohol or non vegetarian food during
Pitru Paksha. Use of tobacco is prohibited too.
It is also important not to consume food in other houses. It is believed
that if you do so, you would incur 'salt debt' and their Pitru Dosha will be
transferred.
A
remedial Pooja may be required to remove the ill effects.
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